Is it just me?

Or do other people not understand why most women that are approaching their wedding date lose a ton of weight and then gain it back after they are hitched? I understand you want to look your best on your big day but don't you also want to look like yourself? I would be kind of upset if I looked back at my wedding pictures and did feel like I was looking at me.

I am totally in support of shedding some of the happy weight you might have gained during the courtship but getting bone-jutting-skinny is just plain stupid. And I'm sticking with that.